We all judge people by appearances. That's something undeniable. The 'don't judge others' bit, usually used when someone is worried others would judge them the same way, and afraid they're not up to the standards. Which isn't too bad sometimes. What contributes to our appearances though? That's simple..2 Gs : God and Genetics.

Firstly, there are elements of our appearance that's NOT within our control. That would be ethnicity, age, skin colour, general, or rather genetic shape and sizing. Not unless you have loads of dough and are willing to proceed with plastic surgery of some kind, then, by all means.

So what is within our grasps of control? That would be clothing, hairstyle, hygiene, and body language, to name a few. These reflect the personal choices, and these choices are a reflection of their outlook and attitude on life. Those attitudes then define the individual self.


Sometimes we are told, 'Don't Judge a book by its cover'. But generally speaking the book's cover does give some insight to what the contents would be. Let's say you can't read and are looking for a book about curtains, would you look for a book whose cover illustrates aeroplanes or monkeys?

You ought to understand. When you give someone a set of standards, and expect them to live by it, vigorously, are you prepared to be given another set of standards by your peers as well? Some people are content with their own selves. That's fine. Some people are not so content with their own selves, and are keen on changing. That's fine too. But pushing the limit is when you want others to change for your own satisfaction. Especially if its something not within control. Would you be able to change something that's integrated into you, that easily?

So..know when to judge, and what to judge. Or be prepared to be judged for your shortcomings as well. Other solutions? Go blind. Otherwise have the whole of humanity wear the same clothes, the same masks, have everyone go for surgery so that they'd appear the same. Judging people and their appearances may be an inborn instinct, but it can be put under proper control...by being tactful and minding other people's feelings.

Just my two cents of the day. Had a bad one. Nights.